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Showing posts with label adventures. Show all posts
Showing posts with label adventures. Show all posts

Saturday, February 26, 2011

our first valentines day

Craig and I have been together for nearly 5 years, so clearly this wasn’t truly the first Valentines Day that has come and gone while we’ve been together, however this is the first time in nearly three years of marriage that Craig has been home for the day of Loooove.  In the way of all good wives, I sprinkled suggestions of what we could do and let him take the reins and do all the planning, and he surprised me with a trip to Ottawa, our Capital city.

I’ll let you know in advance that this post will be pretty picture laden!

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We stayed at the Marriot in downtown Ottawa on the 24th floor and could see the river, canal and some of the parliament buildings from our window. 

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We had a king sized bed and Emily (and Craig) loved the special bedding they had:

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We decided to go for a walk our first afternoon there before we went out for dinner, so we walked to the Rideau center (a mall) to buy me some new jeans and to browse around.  We’ve both been to the parliament buildings a couple of times (Craig worked a couple blocks from there when he was working in Ottawa for the Military during university), so we didn’t bother to stop there this year, but I did snap a few shots during our walk.

 

The Chateau Laurier Hotel:

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The Rideau Canal, frozen over to make a skating rink:

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A war memorial next to Parliament:

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The parliament buildings:IMG_0107IMG_0109

More offices of parliament:

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And a few more shots of our hotel.  It was Winterlude while we were there, so they had tons of ice sculptures everywhere, including a small ice village where they have club music and dancing each night.  Not meant for parents with babies in tow unfortunately.

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It got really cold in Ottawa while we were there, and Emily didn’t want to be covered up by her blankets, so we pushed the canopy of the stroller forward so it protected her from the wind at least.  Poor rosy little face!

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After that we went out for Valentine’s dinner at Red Lobster, including a 45 minute wait to be seated.  Emily was patient the whole time we waited at the bar and just sat on the table and played with her toys, but the second we got seated she was fussy and wanted to eat and sleep (in my arms).  Good thing I got coconut shrimp and could eat it with one hand!

The next morning we decided to go skating on the Rideau Canal. 

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I hadn’t had my skates sharpened since my second year of university (2005) so needless to say, my skates were a little dull.  In fact, they had patches of rust along the bottom of the blade and when I would try and glide they would catch and act like little brakes.  So below, I’m not pushing the stroller to be mama.  I’m holding on for dear life as every step I felt like I was going to face plant, which is embarrassing for someone who figure skated for years.

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And what’s a trip to Ottawa and the canal without a Beaver Tail?  Yummy!  I get the cinnamon sugar one with lemon to cut some of the sweetness.  Admittedly, there is one at the Village at Blue Mountain, 5 minutes from my house, but when in Rome Ottawa you know?!

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And of course Emily slept bundled up the whole time!

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Later that night we went to a hockey game.  I would like to preface this with the statement that we are die hard Leafs fans.  Or at least Craig is.  So do not hold it against us that we went to a Senators game while in Ottawa; we just wanted to watch some good hockey and it is cost us less than $200 for both tickets and would have been nearly $600 at a Leafs game.  ‘Nuf said.

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ZOMG! What’s that sound!  She may or may not have bit me while nursing during the game but there was lots of cheering and loud buzzers, so she gets a pass.

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Clearly our presence was not helpful to the Senators!

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We made it the 7 hour drive back home without too much fussing from the baby, in fact she did the first almost 4 hours sleeping.

Thank you to my hubby for a great mini getaway; hopefully sometime soon we can get away just the two of us!

Sunday, October 4, 2009

State of play


Because of the Lord's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail.
They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
I say to myself, "The Lord is my portion, therefore I will wait for him."
Lamentations 3: 22-24

Out of all of the books in the Bible, this verse is the one that I carry closest to my heart and (try to) turn to when I am feeling out of place, alone, or anyplace but 'in His Love'. Two weeks ago Craig left for his pre-deployment training in Petawawa, which is 5 hours from our home; he will not be coming home at each night. The 2 weeks following his departure have been an adjustment, to say the least, and as per normal I've delved into a number of new things to keep myself distracted.

I stopped using shampoo, and through that am trying the Oil Cleansing Method. I rearranged the living room (twice), then changed it back, visited a tent sale (twice) and purchased a number of decorations that I'll show you my plans for tomorrow, and I started (twice) a diet called Fat Loss 4 Idiots (I'll keep you posted on that one). All that to say that while I am successfully keeping myself distracted and entertained, I'm not really feeling any less lonely, or any more at peace with this new 'adventure'.

Last Sunday Kimba posted her weekly 'Sunday Morning' inspiration and of all things, just when I needed to be reminded, it was my favourite verse.

Craig managed to come home the last two weekends, and he'll be coming home next weekend for Thanksgiving. Beyond that, we're not sure when he'll be able to come home again, or if I'll be able to go up and visit him. We're looking forward to the long weekend, and a chance to spend some time with our families and each other.

Now that I'm done adjusting though, and this is just 'life' for us, I promise I'll have some more time for blogging!

Monday, September 7, 2009

Long Time Gone

Sorry I've been gone for so long.

It has been a busy couple of weeks both at work and with family stuff (more family weddings the next 2 weekends!), so I haven't had much time for posting.
I've also been intentionally avoiding posting as much as possible until 22 September, as not only is this a 'life without Craig' blog, but I'd also like to get in as much time with him as I can before he goes!

Anyways, this past weekend I've been busy with some projects around the house, and in the coming week I'll be sharing more about each one. Below are two teaser photos, but more details and photos will be coming soon!


As well, I've been slowly chipping away at my list of goals that I'd like to accomplish while Craig is gone (the weight loss being exceptionally SLOW), and I have a few more I'm going to add soon.

I hope everyone has been enjoying their long weekend! I got to take friday off from work took a trip to IKEA, so it definitely got off on a good foot! Craig and I went to the drive-in with some friends from church last night, and we stayed for 3 of the 4 movies (it was a dusk 'til dawn night). Needless to say we got home at 4am this morning!


Monday, August 3, 2009

14 Things Never to Say to a Military Wife

I've decided that Mondays will be my day to vent and cry, but until he's gone to Pet and then deployed, mondays will just be a time I'm going to use to feature something military family related.

Today's post is a forward that has been going around between us spouses, and I found it really enjoyable.


14 Things Never to Say to a Military Wife

1. "Aren't you afraid that he'll be killed?"
(This one ranks in at number one on the "duh" list. Of course we're afraid.
We're terrified. The thought always lingers at the backs of our minds ---but
thanks brilliant, you just brought it back to the front. Maybe next you can
go ask someone with cancer if they're scared of dying.)

2. "I don't know how you manage. I don't think I could do it."
(This is intended to be a compliment. Though, its just a little annoying.
Here's why: it's not like all of us military wives have been dreaming since
childhood of the day we'd get to be anxious single moms who carry cell
phones with us to the bathroom and in the shower. We're not made of some
mysterious matter that makes us more capable, we just got asked to take on a
challenging job. So we rose to the challenge and found the strength to make
sacrifices.)

3. "At least he's not in Iraq."
(This is the number one most annoying comment for those whose husbands are
in Afghanistan. What do they think is happening in Afghanistan? An
international game of golf? Guys are fighting and dying over there.)

4. "Do you think he'll get to come home for
Christmas/anniversary/
birthday/birth of a child/wedding/family reunion,
etc?"
(Don't you watch the news? No! They don't get to come home for any of these
things. Please don't ask again.)

5. "What are you going to do to keep yourself busy while he's gone?"
(Short answer: Try to keep my sanity. Maybe there's a military wife out
there who gets bored when her husband leaves, but I have yet to meet her.
For the rest of us, those with and without children, we find ourselves
having to be two people. That keeps us plenty busy. We do get lonely, but we
don't get bored, and drinking massive amounts of wine always helps keep me
busy.)

6. "How much longer does he have until he can get out?"
(This one is annoying to many of us whether our husbands are deployed or
not. Many of our husbands aren't counting down the days until they "can" get
out. Many of them keep signing back up again and again because they actually
love what they do or they VOLUNTEER AGAIN and AGAIN to go back b/c
there is work that needs to be done.)

7. "This deployment shouldn't be so bad, now that you're used to it."
(Sure, we do learn coping skills and its true the more deployments you've
gone through, the easier dealing with it becomes. And we figure out ways to
make life go smoother while the guys are gone. But it never gets "easy" and
the bullets and bombs don't skip over our guys just because they've been
there before. The worry never goes away.)

8. "My husband had to go to Europe for business once for three weeks. I
totally know what you're going through."
(This one is similar to number two. Do not equate your husband's three week
trip to London/Omaha/Tokyo/etc. With a 12-15 month or more deployment to a
war zone. Aside from the obvious time difference, nobody shot at your
husband or tried to blow him up with an I.E.D., your husband could call home
pretty much any time he wanted to, he flew comfortably on a commercial
plane, slept between crisp white sheets and ate well, paying for everything
with an expense account. There is no comparison. We do not feel bonded to
you in the slightest because of this comment and, if anything, we probably
resent you a bit for it.

9. "Wow you must miss him?"
(This one also gets another big "duh". Of course we miss our men. There are
some wives who do not and they're now divorced.)

10. "Where is he exactly? Where is that?"
(I don't expect non-military folks to be able to find Anbar Province on a
map, but they should know by now that it's in Iraq. Likewise, know that
Kabul and Kandahar are in Afghanistan. These basic facts are not
secrets, they're on the news every night and in the papers every day ---and
on maps everywhere.)

11. "Well, he signed up for it, so it's his own fault whatever happens over
there.
(Yes, ignorant, he did sign up. Each and every day he protects your right to
make stupid comments like that. He didn't sign up and ask to be hit by
anything, he signed up to protect his country. Oh, and by the way, he asked
me to tell you that "You're welcome." He's still fighting for your freedom.)

12. "Don't you miss sex! I couldn't do it!"
(hmmm, no i don't miss sex. i'm a robot. seriously...military spouses learn
quickly that our relationships must be founded on something greater than
sex. We learn to appreciate the important things, like simply hearing their
voices, seeing their faces, being able to have dinner together every night.
And the hard truth is, most relationships probably couldn't withstand 6-12
months of sex deprivation.)

13. "Well in my opinion....."
(Stop right there. Yo, I didn't ask for you your personal political
opinions. Hey, I love a heated political debate, but not in the grocery
store, not in Jamba Juice, not at Nordstrom, not in a bar when I'm out with
my girls trying to forget the war, and CERTAINLY NOT AT WORK. We tell
co-workers about deployments so when we have to spend lunch hours running
our asses off doing errands and taking care of the house, dog, and kids,
they have an understanding. We do not tell co-workers and colleagues because
we are giving an invitation to ramble about politics or because we so
eagerly want to hear how much they hate the President, esp. while we're
trying to heat up our lean cuisines in the crappy office microwaves.)

14. "OH, that's horrible...I'm so sorry!"
(He's doing his job and he's a badass. Don't be sorry. Be appreciative and
please take a moment out of your comfortable lives to realize that
our soldiers fight the wars abroad so those wars stay abroad.)

If you want to say anything, say thank you.

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Introductions

First off, here is our lovely home. Handmade by my husband and his friends, its the perfect size to accomodate our small family.

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You can tell he's very proud.

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Alright so I'm (mostly) joking. Craig was up in the Northwest Territories and Nunavut for 7 weeks this winter and I convinced him to take his camera along. I've got some great pictures that he took up there that I'd like to share, but first, if you've never seen the Rick Mercer special "Talking to Americans", it's pretty humerous.

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Ok, so here are some of the great photos that Craig took while up north in the Arctic.

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I'll try and post some more as I have time. I was quite impressed with his exposure

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Welcome!

I'd like to introduce you to my little corner of the world.

My name is Jen, and I'm married to a Canadian soldier named Craig. My initial intention for creating this blog is to chronicle our time as husband and wife while he trains for and commences a combat role in Afghanistan. I myself work with military families, so I already know many of the ups and downs that can be expected with the military lifestyle. It's not an easy life to live, and there are many nights I am home a longe, however it is also a very fulfilling choice for us both, and we're looking forward to what the future brings.

So come along with me as I try and put this mountain of an obstacle into perspective.

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